Movies and Abortion?

What better way to start an upstart blog, than by not being an upstart. I have found that a great conversation starter is to ask people about their favorite movies. If I listen and am truly interested, I gain some friendly ground with almost anyone. Sometimes, I will rent a movie based on these conversations. While I’m not always thrilled about these movies, for example: Black Snake Moan, Requiem for a Dream, and Weatherman, if I go back to the person who recommended that particular film, they are usually flattered, quite animated and eager for conversation. If the relationship is new, I probably will veer away from criticism and focus on the good elements of the film. Even though I thought Black Snake Moan contradicted its attempt to proselytize against sexual exploitation of women by sexually exploiting the female main character as well as the actress, I praised the film for the strong performances by Samuel L. Jackson, Christina Ricci, and even Justin Timberlake. Usually if someone really likes a film, there is something of value in it. As the bonds of relationships grow in stability and mutual respect, a deeper more honest exchange of ideas and respectful disagreement can take place. I reminded of a story I heard once about some pro-choice and pro-life women who came together on neutral ground on an issue both groups cared deeply about, children. Instead of first entering a debate where the lines were clearly drawn, they cooperated on a project each side could endorse. I cannot recall if it was a community playground or funding for a daycare center for unwed mothers, but it was something along those lines. The point is the two sides came together for children first, instead of against each other. Then, a dialogue was opened on the more difficult issues.